i don\'t think whatever we care shoud belong to ourself,sometimes lose is better than we get,because human\'s ambutions is hard to fill,lern how to releas ourself is the way to success.
Because we care ,when we lose it ,we\'ll fell sad and disappointed.Most of them we lose ,usually ,we haven\'t a chance to appreciate it.So once we suddenly lose it ,we may fell regret it!!So we should learn to treasure everything around us!
We often focus on somethings seriously,no other than what we have done just like that ,so we lose lots of \"treasure\". To treat your \"treasure\" naturally,when you meet sth. which don\'t belong to you ,let them go……
the only reason you lose it is you didn\'t care it enough and you didn\'t try your best .yes,you should askyourself : what have i done for it ?and then you willn\'t feel disappionted but happy